Alzheimer's Awareness Month 2025

Local care partners provide insight into their lives beyond the disease and how they have navigated it with the person with dementia.

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Ray's Story

“Joyce was a loving a wife and our door was always open. We comforted and encouraged many people during our time together. Joyce fed countless people at our table. She was also a wonderful stay-at-home mom to our two boys. We did everything together and we were criticized more than once for being joined at the hip. A special memory that I cherish is sitting on a park bench while holding hands with Joyce at a lighthouse in Goderich as we watched the sunsets.

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Somebody wrote a book called The Long Goodbye, and that says it best. It was a 10-year goodbye with Joyce. A broken mind is a whole new experience, and a long learning curve, but I was committed to love and care for Joyce to the end, no matter what. No amount of time and money is too much because one day you will be faced with the question, ‘Did I do enough?’ I said I do in July of 1960, and I meant it. I could manage the extra time to take care of Joyce, but the stress can wear you and the family down.

I contacted all the organizations that you would normally think of. From firsthand experience, the Alzheimer Society of Chatham-Kent was nothing short of wonderful from first contact until Joyce passed away. The Personal Support Worker had a special connection with Joyce that I cannot explain. Our son Randy said one day, ‘Dad, did you see the look on Mom’s face when talking with the PSW? There is something really special. Mom has a connection with her that I have never seen.’

The Alzheimer Society was my lifeline through it all. They were there all the time and every step of the way with words of wisdom, love and care. I could not ask for more. I would not have survived without the Alzheimer Society.”

Linda's Story

Coming January 23, 2025!

Deb's Story

Coming January 30, 2025!