Communication Tips for Care Partners
Sarnia-Lambton
It is much better to validate and respond with empathy than to tell the person living with dementia that they are wrong.
The following are a couple of scripts that may help you: (remember when you use this style of response, to make them your own and personalize them for the person you are caring for).
- “Can you tell me what is wrong, Why is my brain not working right” - “This must be frustration for you. How can I help?
- “Where is my Mom?”- “You are missing your Mom. Do you need something from her?” “Tell me about your Mom; did she like to…?”
- “Where is my Dad?” - “Do you need your Dad to fix something?”
- “I want to go home!”- “Do you need something at home, or do you want to go there?”
- “I want to visit my sister now!” - “Yes, that is a great idea!, I look forward to our visit with (say her name) on Saturday. She said she was going to bring… for you.”
If you would like more information on communication tips, or would like to join in on education, contact Christine at cwright@alzheimersarnia.ca.